Female with NO sex drive – any natural remedies?

I am in my 30’s and I don’t have a sex drive. I have never had a sex drive. When all my friends had raging hormones in high school, I couldn’t relate at all. I have had a few partners over the years and now I am happily married but still nothing. I mean NOTHING! NO desire and no pleasure. This is not an issue with my husband because we are very happy and I never had pleasure from other partners either. I have tried everything I can think of and nothing works. I have always wanted to discuss with my doctor but always back out at the last minute. I really don’t want to go on a medicine so I am wondering if anyone else has this problem and if there are any natural remedies out there (and how much do they cost). Or am I just a strange person that has no sex drive and no sexual pleasure? HELP!